• Helping a Loved One Through the Grieving Process

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    When a person loses someone close to them, the effects of the loss can have a significant impact on their wellbeing. If a loved one is currently arranging funeral services for a deceased relative or friend, then there several things that you can do to provide her with grief support.

    One of the ways in which you can be supportive of your loved one during this time is to be available to listen. You may find yourself struggling to find the right words to say or searching for ways to make her feel better, but letting your loved know that you are willing to listen and to do so with compassion is an excellent way to help her through her grief. Be prepared to sit in silence with her and to let her talk about the loss as much as she feels is necessary.

    As she grieves, your friend may feel frustrated or apologetic at times as she struggles to accept the person’s passing and work through her feelings. During this period, be sure to let your loved one know that everyone grieves in their own way and what she is experiencing is normal and understandable. However, do not minimize her loss in any way, attempt to compare her grief to yours or that of anyone else, or tell her that you know how she feels. Instead, ask her about what she is feeling and acknowledge her emotions.

    Finally, an important way for you to help a grieving loved one is to offer her assistance with day-to-day tasks. By preparing meals, babysitting children, or running errands, you can help your loved one with daily necessities that might be difficult for her to manage while she is grieving.

    Valley of the Temples Memorial Park provides unique and memorable cremation and funeral services in addition to grief support near Oahu, HI. If you would like to know more about what we offer, then please give us a call today at (808) 239-8811.

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  • Memorialization Options for Cremated Remains

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    If you have recently experienced the loss of a loved one or are planning your own end-of-life services and have chosen cremation, you may be wondering about the memorialization options that are available. At Valley of the Temples, a funeral home in Oahu, HI, we offer a range of services for cremation memorialization.

    Haka House
    If you are interested in a cremation memorialization option that will keep you close to your family, then a Haka House may be right for you. This is a family grave that can keep your family members together for all time, while still being affordable. Each Haka House is situated on its own lot.

    Mausoleum Niche
    The Truesdale Memorial Chapel at Valley of the Temples offers a beautiful setting for cremated remains. Located at the top of a hill, this chapel offers stunning views of the surrounding landscape. The chapel contains mausoleum niches for cremated remains.

    Temple Niche
    The most striking feature at Valley of the Temples is the Byodo-In Temple. In addition to being a beautiful structure, this temple contains a glass-front niche room for cremation memorialization. Each niche can hold up to six urns, so this is an ideal option for a family memorization site.

    Cremation Jewelry
    Cremation jewelry is an option that allows loved ones to keep the deceased nearby at all times. These jewelry pieces are designed to hold a small amount of cremated remains, and are a beautiful reminder of the lost loved one. This option can be combined with other cremation memorialization choices.

    As you are navigating the funeral planning process, let Valley of the Temples assist you. We can help you choose the right cremation services for yourself or a deceased loved one, and also offer unique memorial services. You can learn more about our funeral home by calling (808) 239-8811.

  • How to Express Sympathy

    If someone close to you has recently experienced the loss of a loved one, you may be unsure about the best ways to show sympathy and support for your friend. Ask if there is anything you can do to help with funeral planning, and watch this video clip to learn more.

    When speaking to your friend, be sure to allow enough time for your friend to express his or her thoughts and feelings completely. It is often best to simply listen, rather than to offer advice. You can also support your friend by offering to clean his or her house, or by bringing a prepared meal.

    With the funeral services at Valley of the Temples, a cemetery and funeral home serving Oahu, HI, you can plan a touching tribute for a lost loved one. Call (808) 239-8811 to learn more about our cremation services, tribute videos, and more.

  • Dealing with the Loss of a Family Member

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    When you lose a family member, it is important to give yourself time to process your grief. As you plan the funeral at a funeral home serving Oahu, HI, don’t be afraid to ask for help with planning and grief support.

    As you process the loss of your loved one, keep in mind that everyone experiences grief differently. While there are several stages of grief that most people experience, there is not a set order in which you may experience these and or a certain amount of time that the grieving process should take. It may help you to reach out to friends or family members, or to seek counsel from a spiritual leader. For some people, seeing a therapist or grief counselor can also be helpful during this time. You may also find that the funeral services help you process your loss as you celebrate the life of your loved one.

    At Valley of the Temples, we strive to provide meaningful and supportive funeral planning services for each of our clients. To learn about our cemetery and funeral home, call us at (808) 239-8811.

  • Who Should Deliver a Eulogy?

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    When a loved one passes, planning the funeral can seem daunting. However, you do not have to go through this process alone. The funeral home that you choose for your loved one’s funeral services can help you through every step of the planning process. Additionally, asking an individual who was close to the deceased to write and deliver the eulogy can help to relieve stress during the funeral planning process. Here is a look at some individuals who you may want to consider when planning the eulogy.

    A close friend can be a wonderful and meaningful choice to deliver the eulogy. Whether this individual was a friend since childhood or only entered the deceased’s life a few years ago, a close friend will be able to share warm memories of time spent with your loved one. Your loved one’s friend may even be able to relate a few humorous stories about the deceased to help you celebrate a life well lived.

    Family Member
    One of the most common choices for delivering a eulogy is a family member of the deceased. A child of the deceased can talk about how your loved one shaped his or her life and taught important lessons, and can help everyone remember the important impact that the deceased had. A sibling is another good choice to give a eulogy, as he or she will have known the deceased for most of his or her life.

    Whether the deceased was married or in a committed relationship, his or her partner may wish to deliver the eulogy. This individual will have a great love for the deceased that he or she can share with everyone at the funeral. Delivering the eulogy can also help the deceased’s partner through the grieving process, as he or she will be able to celebrate the love and life that they enjoyed together.

    At Valley of the Temples , we are ready to help you and your family plan meaningful and beautiful funeral services for your loved one. We can even offer unique memorial services, such as a butterfly release ceremony or a Koa Tree planting. To find out more about our funeral and cremation services in Oahu, HI, call Valley of the Temples at (808) 239-8811.