Has it occurred to you to pre-plan your funeral? Pre-planning a funeral with a funeral home can help you and your family feel more secure about the future. You’ll be able to put your wishes for your funeral service in writing. In addition, pre-planning can help protect your family from future financial distress.
However, pre-planning for a funeral does not require you to pre-pay. On the contrary, you can simply use your pre-plan as a written record of your wishes, and your family can pay for these outlined services when you pass. Your other option is to pre-fund your plan. This will protect you and your family from future inflation. Your funds will go into a trust account or be placed with an insurance company at a guaranteed price that you agree to pay. No one will ever have to pay more for the services that you’ve requested.
If you’re looking to pre-plan a funeral near Oahu, HI, contact Valley of the Temples Memorial Park today. We will walk you through the step-by-step process of pre-planning cremation or funeral services. Call us today at (808) 239-8811 for more information on our pre-planning and pre-funding services.
Dealing with the death of a loved one does not stop at planning a funeral service in a funeral home. In addition to planning for cremation of the remains or choosing a burial plot in a cemetery, you may also have to handle aspects of your loved one’s personal life—such as their social media accounts. Handling the social media accounts of the deceased can be trying in both emotional and practical terms. Read on to learn how to best handle your loved one’s social media accounts.
Facebook has a couple of options for dealing with the accounts of the deceased. One option is to submit a Memorialization Request to Facebook. This changes the former account into a memorial page. That way, the user’s information is still shown, but it is no longer seen as being active. Another option is to close the user’s account using a Special Request for Deceased Person’s Account.
Google allows an authorized representative of a deceased user to request access to the contents of a Gmail account. Google also has something called “Inactive Account Manager,” which allows users to plan their “digital afterlives.” In other words, users can notify Google of how they want their account to be handled if they remain active for a prolonged period of time.
Twitter won’t give anyone access to a deceased user’s account. However, it does accept requests for deactivation. If you want to deactivate the Twitter account of a deceased loved one, you must send a list of specific documents to Twitter by fax or mail. After verifying this information, Twitter may choose to deactivate the user’s account.
If you’re planning a funeral ceremony near Oahu, HI, you know that it can take time to pick up the pieces after a loved one passes. That’s why Valley of the Temples Memorial Park is here to help you create a personalized funeral service for your loved one. Call us today at (808) 239-8811 for more information on how we can help you during this trying time.
Have you recently attended a funeral service in a funeral home? If so, you may need to write a letter of condolence to the family of a loved one. Writing a letter of condolence is one way to show your sympathy for the family members of the deceased following a burial or cremation service.
Watch this video for some tips on writing a condolence letter. A condolence letter should be handwritten, sincere, and prompt. Aim to let the person know that you are thinking of them and their family. In addition, be honest when talking about the deceased. Share your fondest memories, but don’t try to paint the person in an unrealistic light.
Are you attending or planning an upcoming funeral service near Oahu, HI? Valley of the Temples Memorial Park can aid you in creating a customized funeral service for a loved one. Call (808) 239-8811 today for more information about our funeral service offerings.
Planning a funeral service often involves planning for a burial or cremation service for the remains of the deceased and planning a memorial service to celebrate the life of the deceased. There are several things to keep in mind when planning a memorial service, no matter what type of service you choose to have. Keep reading to learn more about what questions you should ask when planning a memorial service.
When will it be held?
Funeral services usually occur in the presence of the remains of the deceased. Therefore, they need to be held within a few days of the death. These time constraints can often cause a lot of stress and may preclude certain family members from attending. In contrast, a memorial service can be held at any time after the death of a loved one. By having time to schedule the event in advance, you can be sure that out-of-town guests have time to prepare for travel.
Where will it be held?
A memorial service can be held wherever you and your family feel is the most appropriate place. That means you can have it at the home of a close family member, a religious venue, or a funeral home. You can even host the memorial service in a different community than where the funeral service was held in order to be sure all of the deceased’s loved ones are included in the act of remembrance.
Who will attend?
You can choose how personal to make the service. For example, you can place a public announcement in the newspaper if you want to reach the largest audience of people who may have known the deceased. Or, you can write to the friends and colleagues of the deceased personally—or even call them up by phone.
Are you planning a memorial, funeral, or cremation service near Oahu, HI? Valley of the Temples Memorial Park can help you plan an event to celebrate the life of your loved one. Call (808) 239-8811 today to learn more about your options for arranging a funeral service.
When attending funeral services, you might have many questions. What should I say? When do I visit? These questions and more are important to consider when comforting someone. Whether you are an immediate family member, a good friend, or a brief acquaintance, know that your presence is important in this trying time.
What Should I Say?
Be kind, and be yourself. Simply saying “I’m sorry for your loss” can be enough. Attending the funeral services of a friend’s loved one shows support in many ways, though they may not realize it until later. You can also offer a kind ear if they need to talk or wish to share a fond memory. No matter what you say, or what you offer, think about the person you’re speaking to. Be respectful in their time of need, as you would want them to be during your time.
What Should I Wear?
Tradition has always been to wear dark colors and semi-formal suits and dresses. As funeral and memorial services have changed, so too have the dictated dress guidelines. Sometimes funeral attendees will wear a memorial t-shirt or a show of support for a cause close to the deceased. Other services might be less formal, in accordance with the deceased’s and loved ones’ wishes, and ask that you wear colors based on their religious preference, or colors of the deceased’s favorite sports team, or Hawaiian-style shirts they loved. If there are specific requests, follow them as best you can, and when in doubt, wear something dark or neutral.
Should I Bring My Children?
Attending a funeral service can be stressful for anyone. Your child may ask questions to understand what’s happening and why people are upset. They may even become frightened if they see the deceased’s body. Only you have an idea of how your child will react, whether it’s with respect, misunderstanding, or fear. Keep this in mind when deciding if they should attend.
You may have many questions regarding funeral services near Oahu, HI. Valley of the Temples Memorial Park is here to answer them at (808) 239-8811. Give us a call for information about funeral planning and grief support at our cemetery.
Many families choose to hold a memorial service or reception after the funeral service and burial service are over. The purpose of the reception is typically to thank those who attended the funeral service, and give people a chance to share memories and comfort one another. Here is a look at what you can expect when you attend a post-funeral reception.
Refreshments or a Meal
Most receptions have light refreshments or a meal. The reception may be held in a private home, restaurant, church, or funeral home. Some families request that guests bring dishes to share, and you should always ask the family of the deceased if there is anything that you can bring. If you are considering bringing alcohol to the reception, you should check with the family first. Some religions prohibit the consumption of alcohol at memorial or funeral services.
Sharing Stories and Memories About the Deceased
A post-funeral reception offers mourners the chance to share stories and memories about the deceased in a more casual setting than a funeral home, church, or cemetery. If you choose to share a memory, it’s best if you share one that is positive or light-hearted. You should behave politely and show respect for the family of the deceased at all times. If you did not know the deceased very well, you should not feel pressured to share any memories.
Offering and Receiving Comfort
Another important purpose of a reception is to offer comfort to and receive comfort from other mourners. A reception is an opportunity for grief support, and you should feel free to reach out to others if necessary. You should also offer comfort, support, and sympathy to anyone who needs it.
If you’re arranging a funeral ceremony near Oahu, HI, come see us at Valley of the Temples Memorial Park. Our funeral home has been providing funeral, burial, and cremation services to community members of all cultures, ethnicities, and religions since 1963. To learn more about our funeral home, crematorium, and memorial park, call us today at (808) 239-8811.
If you’ve recently been invited to attend a Jewish funeral ceremony, you might be wondering what to expect. It’s important to understand Jewish funeral customs, so that you can be sure you’re as respectful as possible throughout the service. Here’s a look at some of the things that you can expect at a Jewish funeral service.
The Funeral Service
Jewish funeral services can be held at the cemetery alongside the burial plot, or they can be held at a synagogue or temple. The faith designates specific family members as official mourners of the deceased, including parents, children, spouses, and siblings. These family members do not greet the funeral attendees until after the burial service. Before the funeral service begins, the mourners will be ushered to the front rows of the synagogue. An officiant or rabbi delivers a eulogy and prayers, and then the mourners exit the synagogue.
The Burial Service
After the funeral service, the body is transported to the cemetery for burial. The casket is lowered into the burial plot either during or after certain prayers are recited. Mourners and attendees then place dirt over the casket, either ceremoniously, or until the entire casket is covered. According to Jewish tradition, the casket should be simple, plain, and constructed only of wood.
Providing Grief Support
If you are not an official mourner of the deceased, your presence at the funeral service is a great source of comfort to the mourners. After the burial service is complete, the attendees form two parallel lines facing each other. The mourners walk past the lines as a mourning prayer is recited. The family then returns to their home to accept grief support, mourn, and participate in shiva.
At Valley of the Temples Memorial Park, we have extensive experience planning Jewish funeral services on Oahu, HI. Our knowledgeable and compassionate staff can help you arrange a funeral, a burial service, and a memorial service in honor of your loved one. To learn more about our funeral home and its services, call us today at (808) 239-8811.
After the loss of a loved one, it may be very hard to imagine how you’ll make it through a funeral ceremony. Most people will be very understanding of your behavior and feelings, and won’t make any unnecessary demands of you in your time of grief. You should prepare yourself for the funeral service, however, so that you can offer the appropriate gratitude to those who have come to pay their respects.
You should greet the funeral service attendees when you can, and thank them for offering their support. You should also prepare yourself for interacting with guests who might not know what to say or how to offer grief support to you. After the funeral and burial services are over, you should send thank you notes to your officiant and guests who participated in the funeral service or acted as pallbearers.
At Valley of the Temples Memorial Park, our funeral home on Oahu, HI, has been helping families plan funeral services, burial services, and cremation services since 1963. We also offer grief counselors and grief support services in your time of need. To learn more about our services, call us today at (808) 239-8811.
After a funeral service, it is proper etiquette to send thank you cards to anyone who participated in the funeral service or burial service. This includes your funeral officiant, your pallbearers and ushers, anyone who delivered a eulogy, and anyone else who was a part of the funeral ceremony.
Watch this video for some great tips on writing thank you cards after a funeral service. You can ask friends and family to help you with this task if necessary.
If you’re dealing with the death of a loved one, you should take advantage of our grief support services on Oahu, HI at Valley of the Temples Memorial Park. Our grief counselors can provide online grief support services 24/7. To learn more about our funeral home and cemetery services, call us today at (808) 239-8811.
Choosing cremation services after a loved one passes opens up questions about the proper way to store the cremains. Your funeral home can help you explore all of the options, including placing them in a mausoleum niche or entombment. Here are some of the options to consider as you determine the best way to memorialize your loved one’s cremated ashes.
One of the benefits some people see to cremation services is that you can keep your loved one close by storing his or her ashes at home. The ashes can be placed in an urn that you can display on a shelf in your house, and they can even be separated into multiple urns so that other family members can also maintain that connection. Urns come in a variety of sizes, designs, and colors to allow you to pick the most fitting tribute to your lost loved one.
Several traditional cemetery options are suited to cremation remains. Some families choose to put the remains in a traditional burial plot with a headstone. Other families opt to use a niche in a mausoleum. At Valley of the Temples Memorial Park, our Haka House, Byodo-In Temple, and cremation islands are all also potential memorial options for cremated remains. Cremation benches and memorial rocks placed in cemeteries are also popular options.
Glass or Diamonds
For a unique memorial, some people choose to have a portion of the ashes converted into glass or laboratory-grown diamonds. The glass can be made in to a decorative piece while the diamonds can be turned into jewelry. Other types of cremation jewelry, such as lockets, allow you to keep a small amount of the cremains with you.
Valley of the Temples Memorial Park is happy to answer all of your questions about cremation services near Oahu, HI and your memorialization options. We can also provide grief counseling, tribute videos, and other tools to help you personalize funeral services. For more information, please call (808) 239-8811.
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